THE list

So I often read other blogs,and today's LOVELY  and oh so classy post will be coming by way of Steph's asking. She copied another blog on a list of things she likes in a guys, and requested I do the same. And since I have nothing to do with my life, and often think about this, i decided why the heck not. Before I begin, some of these might be thought of shallow, or ridiculous, but that's ok, because that just means we have different tastes in guys, AND you won't steal my "one"

now let's stop wasting time.
The only thing you need to know to win my heart?


1. Be cool.




oh wait. you want to know what MY definition of cool is? ok.

for starters, if you're from UTAH or IDAHO and want to live their for the REST of your life, then just disregard this whole entire message, because we just really aren't meant to be.That doesn't mean we can't be friends, it just wont ever be anything more than that. Also, i can tell when you're being fake. so don't be.



And now i've edited this post a few times, and my list was CRAAAAAAAAAAZY long, so I decided to shorten it and group ideas together.

The shallow qualities
1. Be fit and in shape. My major is exercise physiology. the 1st word is exercise. If i'm trying to take care of my body, you better be right there with me. no beer bellys,or wimpy arms. just 100% buffness.
2. please have a sense of Style. if i'm going to make myself presentable, you better be able to as well.
3.Play sports, or  at least be active. but if you aren't the best, and you're just doing it for fun that is acceptable. 
4.No wimps please. Let's face it. I AM A BRAT. and if I can step all over you, and boss you around, then it will be miserable for the both of us. I need a good sass-ing back. and often.
5.Come shopping with me, and be honest. If i ask for your opinion, and you give me something I just want to hear, it won't be good.

The qualities that are NON-negotiable
1. Be my friend. that means be normal around me at first, get to know me, go along with my silly plans, tell me that i'm being ridiculous. ask me to hang out with your friends, and hang out with mine. BE CASUAL.
2. Earn my trust. You have to be my friend first to earn this. And trusting people to me is a pretty great accomplishment on your part if you actually get me to trust you.
3. Love your family. I absolutely LOVE hearing if you have sisters and how you learned different "style" tricks, or different things from them and how you have a soft side for them. I will melt when I hear these sort of things.
4. be responsible. that means have a job. 5. tell me stories. stories about high school. about your mission. about embarrassing things. anything.
6.Pay attention to the little things I say. You can learn alot about me this way.
7. be original. i'm not a chocolates and flowers for a date or any sort of occasion kind of girl. That doesn't mean you have to spend money on other things, but this could be replaced with...cooking for me?
8. Get me to do things that I don't want to do. but i have to trust you first. which means you better be my friend first. which means you should already know the certain few things that i WILL.NOT.EVER.DO. game over if you think you'll get me to do whatever may be at the time that i dont want to do.
9. Listen to when I talk, and get me to talk about my feelings or problems. I'll put up a fight/front, and sometimes I do it, just to see if you'll fight hard enough. mean, I know, but remember, i'm a brat.
10. Be thankful and humble if I do things for you.
11. Be strong in the church, and have a testimony
11. be confident. but not cocky. I can't stand cockiness
12. Make me laugh. hard. it doesnt matter what you're doing, but just make me laugh.
13. Study hard. There is N.O.T.H.I.N.G cute about failing, or not caring about school subjects.


Things I LOVE
1. call me just to talk. I don't care if you're in the same town and can just come over (although I would much rather like that) but if you're calling or texting, even about something small i will love it.
2. I love a little rebel streak. Squeaky clean boys that are always nice are boring for a girl like me. I don't want any jail or juvie guys, but just a little rebel.
3. Bonus but DEFINITELY not required, if you're a strong buff guy, but you can play any instrument or can sing, and sing for me i will LOVE it.
4. Sing to me anyways. even if you're a horrible singer, it just will be that much cuter.
5. watch cute movies with me. so i can cuddle with you.
6.I love, love LOVE big strong guys, and their super strong hugs. I melt.







Judge me all you want, but one day i'll find the guy.